Personality Development

It is very Strange, for me at least, that nowadays, the complete focus is on COMMUNICATION, OUTER-BEHAVIOR & TO PRESENT GOOD in front of others/Employers/Recruiters etc. Many courses are being conducted on so called PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT/GROOMING. No one is focusing on the Root i.e. Thoughts.

In Personality development courses, we are taught to Speak Sweetly, Act Nicely & Show that we are Happy EVEN IF WE ARE NOT. & in 95% cases, We all have learnt to speak/act nicely while carrying not so nice thoughts in our mind.

So ultimately, In these courses we are taught to SET A CONVERTER IN OUR MIND SO THAT THE THOUGHTS WHICH ARE NOT LIKELY TO BE EXPRESSED IN FRONT OF OTHERS (whether it is Employers, Clients, Colleagues or anyone), CONVERT THEM & THEN EXPRESS THESE CONVERTED THOUGHTS AS IF THEY WERE ORIGINAL.

Isn't it ???

Don't you think that the moment we start working on our Thoughts (Seeds), the whole Tree of Words, Actions & behavior would be perfect, as it is the thoughts only which come into action ultimately. So instead of setting a Converter inside, set a Transformer, which will transform Negative thoughts into Positive one.

Difference : Converter just converts the outer actions, whereas the feeling is not get changed. So we have to work Nice OUTSIDE with a Low/Negative Feeling inside which will ultimately reduces our efficiency & dedication towards the work. On the other hand, Transformer works on thoughts itself, it transform the whole energy & fill us inside. - Indu Kaushal